God's intention for sex is your unrestricted pleasure.... within the bound of a lifetime marriage commitment. But isn't it rigid and legalistic to adhere to a set of ethics from a totally different culture and context? Isn't God more interested in love and relationship than a marriage license? Why not 'practice' our sexual response to each other just as we 'practice' other things before marriage, like communication and decision making? Perhaps you've given in to the siren call of today's relaxed sexual attitudes sexual attitudes. Now you are confused by the lack of true intimacy you experience e with your partner.... or by your increasing inability to communicate with your mate.... or by a feeling of hopelessness that all the "love" has gone out of your marriage. Take heart. There are very good reasons for feeling the way you do, and there are some very real ways to untangle the confusion. The solutions are not easy and they are not quick, but they are effective. This book provides steps fro preventing harmful sexual patterns, and gives hope to those who have already become enmeshed in false intimacy.